Gather reliable details
Pick a real social setting and one low-pressure way to participate. Shared materials, parallel play, or a specific question is easier to rehearse than the broad instruction to ‘go make a friend.’
Making friends at school
A social story about making friends at school, for a 5–8 year old who would rather watch first
A social story about making friends at school works better when it rehearses one specific, low-pressure way to join in than when it tells a child to go and make a friend. Choose the real setting, choose the shared material, and read the script below before the next playtime.
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Use it tonight
Read this to your child before playtime
Use the material your child's playground really has. Keep the sentence about being told no — it is the one that makes trying again possible.
- At playtime tomorrow you do not have to talk to everybody.
- You can stand near someone doing something you like, and just watch first.
- When you are ready, you can hold out one chalk and say: “Do you want this one?”
- If they say no, that is allowed, and you can try again with someone else later.
- Playing next to someone counts as playing together.
Use the story in real life
Prepare, rehearse, then make it true.
A personalized book works best when its details match what your child will actually experience. These pointers help you shape the story — and keep using it after the day arrives.
Practice a small next step
Practice both an invitation and a neutral response if another child says no. The story should leave room for watching quietly and trying again with someone else later.
Keep the book honest
Celebrate concrete attempts rather than promising instant friendship. Add names or activities only when they are real, and keep the child’s successful words available for another day.
Example book
Read one before you make your own.
The example book below rehearses exactly that: watch, draw nearby, offer one color, and build something together. Sprokle does not diagnose a child or replace professional advice.
